think before you speak (or write, for that matter) you never know who might be listening (reading?) to you. bun once mentioned we're always writing for someone to read - if not, then it's for ourselves. but there's just so much you can expose on the world wide web, before you end up putting yourself in a vulnerable position. as for honours: a little voice is asking me to just stay put. it will all work out as long as i put my heart into it.......right? :) as for everything else: just ask me. makes it easier to think before i speak then.